Wednesday, April 24, 2013

A Day in My Life

I realized while working yesterday that each of my tasks were diverse, challenging yet relaxing, and fulfilling.  Having previously lived on a farm (we rented the tillable out) and gardening, keeping some chickens, a rabbit, a few dogs and several cats, learning to can and preserve food, etc., I learned that I really was a small town girl who had strong roots and desires for the more self-sufficient lifestyle.  I love being a stay-at-home mom/wife or "domestic goddess" as Ms. Barr coined.  I thought I'd share my day in pictures.


I start my official day in our classroom.

Next I tackled the kids' laundry.  (This is supposed to be an air hockey table, but we use it for a folding station.)

Doing laundry reminded me we needed more detergent made.

Spending time in the kitchen reminded me that I had rhubarb waiting to be baked into pie.  Yum!
Tigger decided to be my trusty bookmark as I hopped up to start another load of laundry while the pie was baking.
Next, Hubby and I decided to renew our licenses.  After 2 trips to the license branch with all of our personal documents in hand (Social Security cards, passports, hand gun licenses, voter registration cards, current license) we obtained our Secure License.  I have to say that I love my new photo, but we don't get the actual license while we wait.  Because of homeland security or some such, our licenses will be MAILED to us.  Really?!?!  We have to bring our life in documents to the license branch and let them make copies, but we are going to get our licenses in our mailbox?!?!  Like theft never happens that way!  Pffttt!

After all of that nonsense, our family got to celebrate the kids' hard work with their homeschool classes through seeing their efforts at the recital.  Ahhh...
Miss K is in the back row, center.

Mr. C is center, white shirt and tie.  

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

TMI

Is it just me, or do you get information overload from the social media sites?  People, my "friends", post information that I'm not sure they would tell me otherwise and sometimes pictures to accompany the post.  Why all of a sudden do I need to know that So-and-So checked in at Dairy Queen with a photo of their sundae?  My least favorites are the posts telling me that they are sick.  On what planet do I need to know that someone is vomiting unless they are an employee of mine or have been in contact with me in the few days leading up to them calling in so that I can talk precautions?  Is it necessary to tell me how many times they've been to the bathroom with their child since 3am?  Just.  Plain.  Old.  YUCK!!  Looking for the silver lining, I remind myself that at least there are not photos along with these posts!  Salud!

Monday, April 8, 2013

Homeschool Hint

Homeschooling is near and dear to my heart.  I am a homeschooling mom of a high school student and two middle school students.  At the time of this post, our family is participating in one of our homeschool group days.  I am surrounded by one of my sons who is reading, a high school student working on a writing assignment, and two little girls quietly munching on Goldfish crackers while their baby brother snores in his stroller.  Students are rushing up and down the hallway happily chattering about their day, class, or latest fun trends.  Mothers are gathered talking about their lives, school, families, upcoming events, classes, projects.  I love this community of families!

This semester one of the mothers put together a curriculum discussion group for families to talk about what they are using for a particular subject, what works, what doesn't.  It is a show and tell for us mothers/teachers.

Sometimes I struggle with what I want to write about on this blog.  After the discussion group today, it occurred to me to post what WE use for curriculum or for assistance.  The topic for today's group was Writing, Grammar and Literature for middle school and high school students. Ironically, what I brought to share was a book called, Story Starters: Helping Children Write Like They've Never Written Before  by Karen Andreola.  Thank you Mrs. Andreola for helping me over the hump for finding a topic for my blog!

I do not use this book as part of our core curriculum, but I have a reluctant student writer and when I found this book in a catalog, it sounded like it could be the key to unlock the confidence he needed to put pen to page.  I knew the ideas were in his head, but what I didn't know was how to get them out of his head.  One of the many things I like about Story Starters is that it is fun.  It does not feel like schoolwork.  This was the giant leap to getting started.  Parents read the story that is started then, using the drawings provided, the student completes the story.  Since no one wants half of a story, this seemed to be a great place to start.  For the optimist, the writing assignment was half-way finished!

We began by just having him verbally finish the story.  It took the pressure of writing off the table, but built the brainstorming process.  After a few sessions like this, he learned that he could come up with his own ideas so his confidence was built up enough to put the pencil back into his hand.

At first, he only wrote a paragraph or so.  Elaboration would have to come later.  Our current hurdle was just making the connection between the idea to then writing it down.  I found myself becoming a bit discouraged during this time since I thought that he should progressing faster than what I was seeing, but I could not let that contaminate his thinking.  I found something in every story to applaud and kept the critiques small.

I learned that to build on his minimal stories was what we needed to do next.  Thankfully, at the end of each half-story is a helpful hint for students to add to their stories by asking questions to delve deeper.  We used these hints to add to what he already had written.  Re-writing what he already had was not his favorite, so sometimes he could dictate what he wanted to add then I would type it out for him to then read together.  From that point, he could critique his own work and began thinking of his own hints to make his story better.

Now he was writing full endings, complete with additional characters or dialogue.  He was beginning to edit his own work and add in more color through adjectives and sensory details.  I feel like this book has brought us up from a pit of discouragement to having confidence to tackle other types of writing.  He still doesn't enjoy writing research papers, but at least now he isn't afraid to try.

Friday, April 5, 2013

Spring Break 2013

What fun we've had these last few days and God gave us some sunshine to boot!  My family came to visit Easter Sunday and my nephew stayed with us from then until yesterday afternoon.  I am so very blessed to have been able to have some time with him here.
Nephew skateboarding

Mini weapons of mass destruction
The kids played outside: skateboarding, basketball, made a spy movie (which was edited inside, but an entire day of shooting outside!), riding bikes and having a cookout were all part of the activities.  While inside, we watched movies, played games, made weapons from office supplies, and went duckpin bowling.  

Now we are preparing to see the cousins on the other side of the family.  Today we are packing up and heading to Ohio for a couple of days.  Can't wait to see what is in store for this weekend!  




Monday, April 1, 2013

Donuts

I found some doughnut pans in my cabinet this week.  Daughter dearest and I decided that we should try them out the second morning of our Spring Break.  I heard they tasted great.  We made a dozen chocolate and then one-half dozen chocolate filled doughnuts.  It was just too tempting to have the leftovers stay here, so we shared with friends.

Monday, March 25, 2013

Contentment

Seems everywhere I turn, someone I know is experiencing trouble, some to a greater extent than others--if there really is a scale.  Terrible Two's.  Dissatisfaction with job.  Weather.  Victim of theft.  Death of loved one.  Stagnant weight loss.  Falling through house sale.  Exhausting work schedule.  Delinquent children.  We live in a fallen world and deal with the results of sin everyday, whether or not our circumstances are related to our personal sins.  Some tragedies and life struggles we can change.  Some we cannot.  Some will change whether or not we do anything at all.  Some will change without our notice.

If we remember that we are always in the care of our Father, and that He works all things for good for those  who love Him, then we should be satisfied with that.  We may not know how, or when, or to what extent.  The good we see may not even be for us even though the struggle is ours.  When it seems that nothing is going right, cling to Him.  Praise Him in all circumstances.  He never changes.  He doesn't always remove us from the storms of life, but just as silver is refined by fire, so are we.  Sometimes we need to endure the troubles of life.  Big or small.

Ask what we need to glean from our struggle.  What should we remember?  What would be of benefit for someone struggling later?  When we meet someone who is currently in a battle, do we pass by without a helping hand or personal touch or love and compassion?  No!  Use your past turmoil and the fact that you are still standing as a testimony of encouragement!

We've been reading through Proverbs for Bible class.  This morning we summarized that there are fools, gossips, sluggards and quarrelsome people, but if we act in kind (out of a need for justice, or whatever the case may be), then we are no better than they.  Are we even worse if we recognize it and do it anyway?

Find contentment in all circumstances.  No one really wants to hear that "everything will be all right" while in the midst of the struggle.  That is detached and unfeeling.  Certainly no one has gone through our specific struggle in the same manor; however there are always similarities and because we can share the emotion, we can be grateful that we are not alone even on earth.  God gives us the "others" in our lives.  He has placed us here, just as we are, to share, to love, to live together and encourage one another.

If we focus on our troubles, we will stay in the pit of despair.  We will not recognize the blessings He has bestowed upon us--even in our struggles--if we do not keep Him as our focus.  Let the things of this earth grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace.  What greater testimony to others can there be than to stand strong in our outward love and adoration for Him during our hard times?


Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Eye Exam

Is it just me, or does anyone else believe that Punxsutawney Phil needs to have his eyes examined?  He did predict an early Spring this year.  (click here for story)  Perhaps I should cut him some slack since I do live in Indiana where the weather is always changing, but this is the map for the high temperatures today across my part of the country.  This does not look like warm temperatures to me.
indianapolis Indiana Today's High Temperature Map Map

This is the view from my back porch.  Pretty, but not Springtime weather.  School was cancelled in town. Other parts of the county experienced delays.  People have been driving a bit more cautiously.  I am ready for Spring!  I want to smell flowers, to hear birds sing, to smell the fresh air coming through open windows, to take a walk without having to add several layers.  Phil, you got my hopes up and have let me down!  ...What?  You say it's only been 4-1/2 weeks since Groundhog's Day?  Ooops!  Sorry, Phil.  You have 1-1/2 more weeks to make sure Spring arrives or you and I are going to have a serious talk about your healthcare....